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What is Dogging?
Dogging
is the broad term used to cover all the sexual outdoor
activities that go on. This can be anything from putting
on a show from your car, to sex on the grass ! . It all
depends on what you're looking for. Dogging involves
exhibitionism and voyeurism and this combination goes
hand in hand. The voyeurs are mainly men and the exhibitionists
are mainly couples or women who love to attract attention
and often invite people to join in.
If you're thinking of
going dogging for the first time, read these tips below, The
tips on this page are mainly aimed at couples trying
dogging for the first time. The tips are split into three
sections, before, during and after the meet. If you're
a single male, all the advice we can give for males is
be polite, don't be pushy and only do things you are
invited to do. most couples say that allowing males to
join depended on how clean, polite and non pushy the
males were.
Before the meet
Talk
about it - If it's your first time dogging, then you
need to talk about what you're looking to get out of
it. It's easy for partner to get confused about how far
to go. Talk to each other, decide what you're both comfortable
doing, the last thing you want is to overstep your partners
boundaries.
Be prepared - It's helpful
if you put together a small bag containing condoms (if
the males haven't brought any), wet wipes and deodorant.
These are just a few things which will make the meet
go easier. Another thing which is helpful are the business
cards you get out of the machines you find at service
stations. A simple card with your swinging names, email
address and even your mobile number will come in handy.
Advertising - Dogging
can be a bit hit and miss, sometimes you can spend hours
at a location and see no action at all. The way round
this is to advertise a dogging board. When you advertise,
don't advertise the location you're going to or what
time you're going. This will result in a mass of single
men waiting for you ! All you need to include is
the county you wish to meet in and the date of the meet.
Then simply ask people to email you about the meet. Once
you have the emails, you'll be able to choose who you
want, and email them the details of the actual location
and time. This should stop you being swamped.
During the meet
Safety
- Before you arrive, make sure you move your bag / purse
/ wallet / anything valuable to a safe place like the
glove box, it sounds silly, but would you want someone
to know your full name and address? Lock all the doors
from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and
keep you in control of what goes on.
Signals - There's loads
of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing
lights, these could be interior or exterior lights. This
basically means they're doggers. Leaving the internal
light on basically means we want to be watched. If they
wind down the window, this means the they want to fondle
/ be fondled or more. If they want more, they tell you.
Most doggers start with a show for the guys and then
go further once they've picked the males that interest
them. There are many more signals but most of these are
really obvious, like flashing.
Too many males - If you're
presented with the problem of too many males, the easiest
thing to do is just ask them to back off. Most will comply
with no problems, some don't. If they don't and can't
take the message, simply say your going because of "that
pushy bastard". Often the males watching will help remove
the idiots, simply because they don't want their fun
spoilt. If it's too much for you, just drive off.
After the meet - Safety & Consideration
For Others
Ending
it - A simple thank you to all the males that watched
or took part in the fun is all that's needed. everyone
will get the idea and say their goodbyes.
Cleaning up - A lot of
the dogging locations are based around picnic or other
public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used
tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you. Please
do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure
way of getting the area closed at night by the local
council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area.
Keeping in touch - Remember
those business cards, well if you find someone you'd
like to meet again, you can give them your card to keep
in touch if you want to.
Leaving - On heading
home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go
for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure
that nobody has followed you home.
Talk - After it's done,
you'll be high on the feeling, this is a good time to
talk about what just happened. What you liked, what you
didn't, what you want to do next time. As with all types
of swinging, talking is the way to safeguard your relationship,
remember that your relationship is far more important
than a couple of hours fun.
